menu
stickK blog
Welcome to the stickK blog
Sirens and Self-Control
By Daniel Akst   View more articles by this author
  Add a Comment    |    Bookmark and Share
February 25

{image}

There’s a lot to like about Melbourne, Australia’s second largest city: sunshine, great food, trams clattering in all directions, not much traffic and of course the ocean. But there was one thing above all that I was determined to see during my stay: J.W. Waterhouse’s marvelous painting Ulysses and the Sirens (1891) at the National Gallery of Victoria. When I got there at last I was so excited that I had one of the guards to take my picture in front of the thing.


What’s the big deal? Classically inspired works were popular with English painters in those days. But this one is special because it vividly dramatizes history’s first recorded episode of someone saving himself by limiting his own choices.

You know the story. Odysseus (as Ulysses is better known to us) and his men are on the way home to Ithaca from the Trojan War when they approach the Sirens, whose magnificent voice, he’s been warned, lures sailors to their destruction. Odysseus wants to hear the song, but safely. And so he stops up the ears of his crewmen with wax, instructing them to tie him to the mast. Once they do face the music, so to speak, he’ll no doubt demand to be freed, but at that point they must ignore this order and instead just tie him tighter still.

It’s one of the great episodes from The Odyssey, which is all about the difficulty of controlling desire, and I especially wanted to see it because I was in Melbourne to promote the Australian edition of my book, We Have Met the Enemy: Self-Control in an Age of Excess, which talks a lot about such instances of “precommitment.” That’s the term for this kind of thing coined by the economist Robert Strotz back in 1956. Strotz was the first to notice the self-control implications of this scene from Homer’s epic poem.

And that’s one reason stickk.com was so interesting to me. You can’t very well have yourself tied to the mast in order to quit smoking, of course. But you can act today to inflict penalties on yourself tomorrow, when willpower weakens. Like Odysseus, in other words, you can bind yourself in order to set yourself free.

  Add a Comment    |    Bookmark and Share

Comments

Post Message
marktj
marktj
April 13, 2011, 5:15:20 PM GMT
I'm pretty heavily involved in my church (LDS) and I've generally sucked at self control but one thing I've found that helps is to fast for two meals and serve others during that time. It doesn't solve the whole self control issue but I think it helps 1) teach you to give up or postpone a desire 2) focus yourself on something other than "the sirens"

Good post, good book, good picture!
Panstygia
Panstygia
April 9, 2011, 3:05:34 AM GMT
Loved this entry and now I'm going to have to go read your book! What a great metaphor for self-control, and I never even twigged to it. I've seen prints of this painting and always like it... and I've read the Odyssey more times than I can count! Thanks for the insight! I look forward to your book!
toa
toa
March 28, 2011, 5:27:36 PM GMT
there is a border between selfcontrol and hypocrit environmenet unfortunatelly this is a reality, nothing new ........
ballerina65
ballerina65
March 4, 2011, 8:46:11 PM GMT
I am currently reading your book and can hardly put it down. In some ways I feel weak for my inability to muster up enough self control in many situations. But I am also encouraged to realize that this is a common human problem, and by reading about it and becoming more self aware, I believe there is hope for even me! Thank you so much for such a fascinating book.

stickK blog

   Selling My Addiction
   What Makes Chuck Skinny
   Sirens and Self-Control
   A stickKy Diet Resolution
+
Server IP 10.0.0.173
Portal Id 0
User Id 0
Unix Timestamp 1714404012
Current Timezone GMT
Server encoding: utf-8
Assets folder: https://static.stickk.com/yii-assets/dcbc9e4e
Payment Type PRODUCTION
Your feedback has been sent. Thank you!
This website uses cookies to ensure you get the best experience on our website. Read our Privacy Policy
Loading...