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N breakup
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Week 7 of 7
G-Lover commits to:
No voluntary contact with N but for one clear question and one clear answer and only if she insists on it first, only if she writes first. No reply for any offer of getting together.
Test related contacts are allowed in order to find out her test results as for H pylori
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No more reports due
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My Commitment Journal
 G-Lover
June 8, 2019, 8:51 AM
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| "What if I contact her and she changes her mind and comes back?" goes again and again in one's head. | |
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G-Lover
June 8, 2019, 8:50 AM
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| Emotional commitments where you still hope your former partner, who seems somewhat ambivalent, aren't that good. You keep making compromises again and again as you understand that stickk is just a tool, not a goal in itself. | |
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G-Lover
June 4, 2019, 8:03 AM
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| I won't post anything in the group as well. And, once again, I am to avoid her at all costs. I'm only there if she isn't. And if she is, I will leave. | |
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G-Lover
June 3, 2019, 11:29 AM
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| Not good. I tried to hear my stuff back and then to realize whether she thought I was able of loving and it sucked me back in once again. I keep breaking my commitment this way or another, I just can't stop wanting to be with her. Meanwhile she's been spending time with M. That's not right. I'm angry at her and I'm needy. What am I to do to ensure a healthy acting? I've unblocked her, alright. But how do I stop contacting her and still negotiate in case she wants to get back? After all she said she still truly loves me, believe it or not. But this way aren't I kind of not allowing myself to heal? Alright. I've made up my mind. I will avoid her at all costs. If I know she's there, I won't go. I won't write anything anymore. But I will reply, OK. I will heal this way. | |
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