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Parent and partner to the best of my abilities. Slow down escalation with parenting.
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petulantskeptic
petulantskeptic
April 13, 2024, 10:38 PM
It is extremely insulting when you take things I say, and explain, and then erase my stated meaning and replace it with some cartoonishly villainous reason that I did it.

I didn’t say “if not for the kids I’d leave” to threaten you or hurt you or punish you. I said it to explain two things: the depth of my frustration and anger over your continued insistence that you understand the few core problem behaviors and improvement is just around the corner. I’ve been dealing with it for literal years and you’ve been telling me the same empty thing for years.

I find myself even needing to explain this because you constantly accuse me of overreacting — demonstrating that you do not understand the precise thing you keep claiming to. That so many of your behaviors are destructive and damaging to our children — yet persist — is something you need to reflect on; it isn’t something to twist into me lashing out because I’m mad. It’s literally what I see and deal with and explain.
runaccountable
runaccountable
April 13, 2024, 9:39 PM
For me to be intimate, I have to know I am loved, cared for and feel safe and secure in our relationship. I have apologized and am attempting to do better. I am not sure if you feel the same way because the last I heard you wanted to punish me by leaving but felt like you couldn’t. I don’t want you to be with me because there’s no options and you feel helpless.
Maddie said I’ve been extra nice since she went to Idaho and feels super loved which is good. Still need to parent and keep things calm without Matt having to get involved so much.
runaccountable
runaccountable
April 9, 2024, 2:06 AM
Kids did very well dinner, forgot about diagonal again though and sat them across from each other. Had Maddie be a big helper with the floor after she mashed potatoes everywhere and held kids accountable with clearing their plates/trash. Didn’t do a real workout but prioritized low chaos.
runaccountable
runaccountable
April 8, 2024, 3:57 AM
Book was good in identifying how we deal with frustrations: identify problem, find solutions and pick the best one response and how strong willed kids (or me) freak out and pick the first solution we think of (which is often the worst choice) and a reflexively negative to offered suggestions from others. Hits close to home
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