Debrief from last night: Dec 20th Saurday
Went to purple and Chantelle, about 15 approaches total:
• A couple of hard blown out: due to calibration error:
o In one set, the girl already looked at me and said hi, I still used line”I want to grace you with my presense”, so a bit too cocky
o The other set, I approach from behind without seeing her face, from experience, this kind of situations does not turn well
• a couple of soft blown out, mostly because the girl was on moving set, can not really keep up with them, guess the key is to walk with them, meanwhile keep running mouth, till they slow down and stop, then switch to standard game set
o one opener to test tonight: “5 seconds.. 5 seconds.. (hi 5 or stop girl walking pass by), you have this most interesting/adorable expression ever” I like this one it has false time constraints, its emotional relevant and can improvise after the line mixing with cold reading, for example: part of you feel so so polite but the other part, I’m not so sure…
• 3 longer sets (5 to 10 mins)
o it seems I’m able to run more longer sets now
o what I do still mostly cold reading for attraction only, need to add premise/flirting and move the set
o cold reading is teasing her, its still about her, need to made it about us, testing the one below (more about me than her): you are very bubbly and very happy, I love it…. Maybe its my influence, you saw you and you got really really happy… Its ok I’m flattered, I’m a little concerned, a little too much too fast, you know, because I’m a shy boy
o after 5 mins in set, try to move her
o I’m tempted to have a drink with you, but I don’t want you to interpret it as I need to drink more to make you more attractive.
o I have a proposition for you, I like to take you go the bar and get a drink, but you have to promise me that the next story you tell me won’t be boring, I promise to ask interesting questions so no pressure
o …, if we hate each other, let’s just limit it up to 5 mins, fair enough?
What to do tonight
• open with more calibration and test the new line follow up with improvisation
o : “5 seconds.. 5 seconds.. (hi 5 or stop girl walking pass by), you have this most interesting/adorable expression ever”
• more flirting:
o you are very bubbly and very happy, I love it…. Maybe its my influence, you saw you and you got really really happy… Its ok I’m flattered, I’m a little concerned, a little too much too fast, you know, because I’m a shy boy
• Sexualization
o I have to ask you something and it’s really important, do you sleep on left or right side of the bed?
follow up with disqualify like that’s not gonna work out between us
o I really want you to be inside of me
• move her around physically
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