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On average do at least 3 approaches...
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AntiDoesntMatter commits to:
On average do at least 3 approaches a day for a week (21 total) with the intention of having at least 1 solid interation per day (e.g. at least hook+number)
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 AntiDoesntMatter
October 25, 2022, 11:00 AM
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Day 4 no approaches but did have a nice chat with two people at my local sauna. Day 5 another interesting day: I started out at Seedling cafe and headed to the cat cafe alley area when I saw Chad from ColdOnes. I walked past at first then decided I had to approach and was like 'hey it's the famous guy!' and he was like 'do you know my name tho' and we ended up having a friendly wholesome chat about Crown, tinychat, streaming, and 'internet culture'. His uber arrived, we shook hands again, and he waved farewell while getting into his uber. After that I was feeling great, ended up complimenting one girl with cat pattern top and galaxy leggings and another girl's outfit at Supermelbourne who had a zebra pattern and was blending into the projection. Soon after the last one I opened a girl whose shirt said something about Hemp and I was like 'you look like you like hemp'. I'm in a very fasted state at this point (high state of ketosis) so I'm relaxed yet my verbals and expression are flowing smoothly and at a good pace. I bring up the art gallery alley right next door and she said she hadn't been so we bounce there (like a mini instadate). I instagram close and we talked/vibed for a bit, then I walked her down Swanston to nearby her apartment. Followed up for date next day but she had work so will resched. |
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AntiDoesntMatter
October 23, 2022, 10:47 AM
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Day 3.. Interesting day. Started off with the Structured Socialising event. Met 6 new ppl (2 girls). We were given prompts e.g. 'What is a miracle that happens every day' and were told to discuss it amongst our group, and if we clicked with someone to note down their number tag. Then I went to a day party in St Kilda that had workshops, live music, art, and some chill people. I met the organizer and approached 3 other girls. The first one was standing by the cafe/'bar' area and eating a sandwich. Initiating conversation seemed seamless. We had talked about art and how she paints abstract and her piano teacher was bad. One was running a workshop and had a lot going on with her outfit so it was quite attention grabbing/alluring so I leaned into that curiosity to spark a convo. It was a chill interaction. The second one the girl seemed by herself like me, just wandering, so I sensed a likedness. She was also relatively attractive compared to the others. She seemed a bit unreceptive though. I walked up and down the beach then decided to go to MC after eating at Don's near my parking spot. I did some shopping then saw a cute girl on her phone with a northface jacket and flared pants. I told her I liked her outfit and it looks cosy and she said ty and was very receptive and said 'I like __' (inaudible) but I was already walking away. I saw another cute girl shortly after in QV and we locked eyes briefly. I walked her down after initially passing her and said I like your outfit and she said ty and was receptive and this time I 'stood my ground'.. but didn't follow up/say anything else eg 'do you have a min?' or give a reason for approaching so it was a bit awkward for a sec as we both seemingly didn't know what to do and I just said have a nice day. The weirdest thing that happened was when I was chilling at Vic Library. A random dude came up to me and make an observational comment that seemed a bit suss (indirect). We started chatting a bit about the object of observation and make friendly convo. He asked quite a lot of questions so I was getting sussed out a bit. He was talking about how he got hacked and shortly after asking for my number and I felt like I was gonna be robbed a lil. I asked why he approached and he was just chatting to randoms so we had that in common so I was receptive. He 'qualified' me saying I seemed chill and most people are snobs. We ended up going to coles as I needed to buy something and I felt like I was gonna get robbed but at the same time I knew it was chill and in my head. His vibe was off a bit, if he was bubbly/charismatic/empathetic and cracking jokes etc it might've been different. This gave me good perspective into how girls might feel. Note re goal setting: - The goal (e.g. 'with the intention of closing') restricts me to only quite attractive girls which I would close.. which makes me a bit selective /judgey/in my head - Weave in 'do you have a min'? and reason for the approach for the next commitment |
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AntiDoesntMatter
October 23, 2022, 10:00 AM
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| Day 2.. No approaches :(, went to a musical then a popup mural in city then tried on clothes and saw some bands.. I was a bit tired today.. Kind of curious as to what the pressure of needing to do 6 approaches tmrw would do and knew I would accomplish as had a 'Structured Socialising - Make New Friends' event on the next day. | |
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AntiDoesntMatter
October 22, 2022, 12:51 AM
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Day 1 1: two azn girls one w schoolgirl outfit. Said hey i like ur outfits theyre like aw ty 2. In group 2.. approached as walked past (when she was alone)..said hi u look friendly or bulla as they say in fiji (bought fiji kava was gunna link to that) but her reaction what like wut.. she seemed nonreceptibe/on her way .. i was smilin.. wing said it seemed calculated.. imo didnt quickly introduce and ask if she has a minute, set frame 3. Hey i like ur outfit shes like wut/didnt know what to say/acted like it didn’t happen.. we were both looking at phones .. receptivity not there .. seemed super random for her so prob shoulda acknowled randomness.. just smiled and said have a nice day and she smiled back Note on goal setting: -if get solid close don't have to approach more? -or: no way out eg must b 3 (not ‘on avg’) -time limit eg 3 approaches in 1 hr -better to even set a start time -‘with intention to’ doesnt mean much/manifestinto reality? As intention is easy to have |
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